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October 24, 2005
Life is what we make it...
After witnessing and experiencing many complicated situations in the past few months, I can’t help sighing: Everyone has different problems. If one has not problems at work, she/he might have the problems with their love life, or with the kids, or with the health, or with the relationship with friends....
When I gave my “life is complicated” comment, a friend over IM just said:” Life is what we make it…”
That put me into silence for a while. No one’s life is easy. Each day we are facing different problems and each day we have to make different decisions. Sometimes it is a big life decision which bothers us. However it all depends on our attitude. We could make our life depressing if we only see the empty half of the bottle; We could make our life cheerful even in the rainy days if we believe that we will see the rainbow afterwards; We could make it complicated and overwhelming if we are preoccupied with all the troubles; we could also make it easier if we can let go some of the burdens and walk firmly towards where we want to go.
Life is short, and it does not stop regardless we are happy or not.
Believe me, we can make our life beautiful.
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October 17, 2005
Toronto night
Nothing is more pleasant than having a wonderful conversation with an old friend in a real Sichuan restaurant in a rainy evening...
回锅肉
酸菜鱼
夫妻肺片
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October 13, 2005
Not just the rain
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October 6, 2005
有意无意之间
古人云：
“宠辱不惊，看庭前花开花落，
去留无意，观天上云卷云舒“
年轻时想这该是种多么超然从容的境界啊，现在竟更多觉是沧桑之后的无可奈何。
命运是个好玩的东西，常常和你做猫捉老鼠的游戏。有时你望穿秋水却一无所获；有时你心静如水，幸福却突然汹涌而来让你猝不及防；有时你盘算再三却无疾而终；有时你心如死灰却见柳暗花明如枯木逢春。
于是你在千锤百炼千帆过境后，学会了凡事不要期望值太高；体会了谋事在人，成事在天；明白了世事难料，人生多变；懂得了让自己凡事处于有意无意之间。。。
一直信奉经历是财富，经历得越多承受能力就越强。于是尽管千疮百孔仍一副不屈不挠状。一位叫我年长的朋友有次对我说：“或许年轻时是这样吧，年纪大了再经历风雨反而更脆弱了。。。所以凡事不要太较真儿，居于有意无意之间吧。。。“ 对于前一半我不能完全体会，也许有一天我也会心生这样的感慨。。。那时我也该老了。。。
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October 2, 2005
等待
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